Not my circus. Not my monkeys. (Polish proverb) Every time you feel yourself getting drawn into other people's nonsense, repeat these words. Great to remember, because I am trying to not get sucked into peoples drama
When someone asks you to listen to a song, it's because the lyrics mean everything they're trying to say. I rarely do this because I love the music I listen to so much I don't want anyone to ruin it for me.