Omg so true! Narcissists are notorious for treating the general public better than the people closest to them. Narcissists are intensely concerned with the quality of their public image, or "Billboard"
For two-plus hours, I had to look at him while he yelled at me for spending all of his money and him asking me where it went, after I gave him proof in the form of a store receipt. Yes, I have known a controlling person.