You will never truly understand the struggles of another person. Remember to realize how hard your own struggles are for you. The other guy feels the same way. We are all trying to make our way in this world so make it easy on everyone and don't judge.
Among the Wolves is exposing abusers, bullies and abusive advocates like these. "Some people out there will do all kinds of unscrupulous tactics to get what they want even if it's wrong, as long as it fits their agenda.