Every time I'm on my way to the psychiatritst's office. We have a symbiotic relationship.. and he's probably thinking "Bring your insurance card and I'll bring the drugs and we can meet in a dark alley to do this if you like.."
If he does not claim you, he does not want you. Either he doesn't want you or he does not have what it takes to claim you. If a man is tentative about it then he is not the man for you. Now, we often do not consider seriously enough the matters of the heart. A call to love to another human being is a very sacred experience. The heart of a human being is to be held in a holy space, and if we treat it as such, there will be far less pain involved.