So very true.....I was heartbroken in 2012 when we lost our beloved Angel Cleo, at the young age of 14. It was unexpected, we thought to have many long years more with her. I was so heartbroken, Mika wouldn't come near me. I think she knew I was grieving. But the next year we moved to a much Smaller place. We waited for hours she in her carrier, me in the only chair. I forgot to bring cat food, all I had was a tiny dish for water and a bag of treats. I knew she was hungry, finally I crawled down