ALWAYS be confident in your decisions. Live life for you. If someone doesn't like it i guess they don't have your best interest in mind. only you can make the decisions that will change your life into what you want it to be.
By the grace of God: yes. "Make up your mind that no matter what comes your way, no matter how difficult, no matter how unfair, you will do more than simply survive. You will thrive in spite of it" -Joel Osteen