God is the source of this family in all things. He works all things out for our good. "For I know the plans I have for you,"declares The Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
We're allowed to acknowledge that we're annoyed, though. Then we give that annoyance to God. With practice, the annoyance may lessen over time. But being patient with ourselves also helps us to be patient with others.