Where you are today is no accident. God is using the situation you are in right now to shape you & prepare you for the place he wants to bring you into tomorrow. Trust him with his plan even if you don't understand it.
Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.
2 Chronicles (ESV) 14 if my people who are called by my name humble themselves, and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and heal their land.