Many people in my life have been some of the things described & I saved the pin because it perfectly described what happened then or what may be going on now. So its very likely that it's not about you, but if the shoe fits.
Hard to do for someone who over-analyzes EVERYTHING! But its important to get this straight in your head. You can move past the surface and try to understand the deeper workings of someone elses actions when you take yourself out of the equation.