Hard to do for someone who over-analyzes EVERYTHING!! But it's important to get this straight in your head. You can move past the surface and try to understand the deeper workings of someone else's actions when you take yourself out of the equation.
Please take this one to heart :) It's that initial spark that leads to that eternal fire that once lit HAS to be sustained in order to feel the heat that comforts and warms our soul !! It is sooo easy to do yet is so easy to put to the side. I will step off my soap box for now but please don't get complacent in your relationship.
Depression support: best things to say. (As opposed to "get over it," "suck it up buttercup," "don't cry emo kid", "other people have it worse"... I could go on, but these are the things NOT to say...)