one day she finally grasped that unexpected things were always going to happen in life. and with that she realized the only control she had was how she chose to handle them. so, she made the decision to survive using courage, humor, and grace.
When I call you to go through the deep waters I will be with you! I will not let you sink nor let the waves overcome you! When you walk through the fire you will not get burned! I am the Lord thy God [paraphrase]