Temperly London gold and silver beaded gown: Helena I wasn't sure how traditional you wanted your dress but these gold sequin wedding gowns are gorg! They're very vintage Hollywood since you weren't sure I thought I'd pin a pic :)
cabled vest/cowl - *Inspiration* this one is knit but you could easily crochet this so pull out your favorite scarf pattern and get to crocheting. You may need to adjust the width of the scarf. Once your scarf is long enough, wrap it around yourse.