"Discipline is helping a child solve a problem. Punishment is making a child suffer for having a problem. To raise problem solvers, focus on solutions, not retribution." Lots of people need to learn this !
this quote is EXACTLY how I feel "Your children are the greatest gift God will give to you." -- I am a missionary in my own home --- when I'm old nothing else I've done would have mattered as much as this - teaching them to have FAITH in GOD