God is there for you. Sometimes you think he's not, but you have to know he is. Things change and there are times where you don't want that to happen but have faith and trust that God will help you out.
If you don't respect your child's privacy, they'll be afraid to tell you anything. They will feel like they have nowhere to go and that they are trapped. For the love of god, respect people's privacy. I wish my mom read this earlier.