"Fuck excuses, learn to admit when you fuck up." This includes trusting the wrong people (and subjecting yourself to abuse). If you never admit you're involved, the same shit will happen to you, ad infinitum.
Wise words from original pinner: "My 'effing' story got me again. It's so frustrating because as a counsellor/therapist and life coach I have been trained to help people bust through the nasty stories that get them down .
They say that the best things in life come from doing things that scare you. If that's the case my life is about to freakin' explode! Be brave! Have faith! Go after everyday and find the lesson, enjoy the experience and LOVE life!