This is EXACTLY what we did and it works AWESOME!! Newborn: Sleeping Through the Night! - to get your baby to sleep 8 hours through the night at 8 weeks and 12 hours at 12 weeks. Basically BabyWise but she breaks it down so you don't have to read the book. This stuff works!! Getting your baby to sleep is totally a science.
A Well-Traveled Mom's Guide - 30 Smart Tips For Flying With a Baby. Luckily for me and Brian our families (my mother being the exception) all live within a 12 hour drive radius. I really think if I have babies my mom would come to me because it's easier that way.