This so true,how many times in life do we experience a tragedy, death, change in thought process and lifestyle. sickness all at once and think we can't handle it. God is there to help us through. A curse and a blessing do go together.
“What they hate is their own lack of self-control, so they control you. What they despise is your strength. What they hold in utmost contempt is your refusal to be controlled and to accept their lie that it’s your fault.