"as much money and life as you could want. the two things most human beings would choose above all. the trouble is, humans have a knack for choosing precisely the things which are worst for them." Dumbledore, Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone
Everything changes when you start to emit your own frequency rather than absorbing the frequencies around you, when you start imprinting your intent on the universe rather than receiving an imprint from existence. Make it positive.
Communications class 101 - Anything said before the word "but" in a sentence automatically becomes false. Everything said after the word "but" is the truth. "You're a wonderful person, but your breath stinks." Which part did you take to heart?