God's plan for our lives doesn't always make sense but He knows what we don't and His way is always better no matter what circumstances we have to go through in order for Him to attain the outcome He has already planned. We just have to have faith and trust in that.
I understand that sadly this doesn't apply for everyone, luckily, for my infertility and our IVF battles it does!! So incredibly blessed we were one of the lucky ones who gets to hold our miracle in our arms!!