Especially if the narcissist is the mother. I refer to this as conditioning. As a child, the narcissist conditions the child(ren) to not dare question her in public 1) Since she is clever at maintaining a front that she is a wonderful mother, with a smile on her face, she'll manage in a few short words to make her child look stupid and 2) Once in private, that child will pay dearly for having the audacity to speak up in the first place. The pain from some abuses can't be seen by the eye!!

Especially if the narcissist is the mother. I refer to this as conditioning. As a child, the narcissist conditions the child(ren) to not dare question her in public 1) Since she is clever at maintaining a front that she is a wonderful mother, with a smile on her face, she'll manage in a few short words to make her child look stupid and 2) Once in private, that child will pay dearly for having the audacity to speak up in the first place. The pain from some abuses can't be seen by the eye!!

No contact and no response. A recovery from narcissistic sociopath relationship abuse.

No contact and no response. A recovery from narcissistic sociopath relationship abuse.

You may not be able to control someone's negative behavior. But you can control how long you participate in it.

You may not be able to control someone's negative behavior. But you can control how long you participate in it.

16 Signs The Guy You Love Is Emotionally Abusive, From Gaslighting To The Silent Treatment | YourTango

If A Guy Does These 16 Things — Sorry, But He's Emotionally Abusive

16 Signs The Guy You Love Is Emotionally Abusive, From Gaslighting To The Silent Treatment | YourTango

Narcissism Co-dependency! (True! Narcissists will often make you special by awarding you with the ability to be the only one able to love them. Beware of feeling special for being the only one to love an unlovable person!)

Emotional  Abusers ~and the law doesn't protect the victims. In essence, we have generation after generation being affected.

Emotional Abusers ~and the law doesn't protect the victims. In essence, we have generation after generation being affected.

The Key Here is stealth. Narcissistic criticism is masked as honesty. When honestly who really wants another to "however kindly" tell them how they fall short. Their criticism is not intended to be constructive but rather to ever so insidiously devalue you.

The Key Here is stealth. Narcissistic criticism is masked as honesty. When honestly who really wants another to "however kindly" tell them how they fall short. Their criticism is not intended to be constructive but rather to ever so insidiously devalue you.

5 Reasons Why it’s Critical That You Leave Your Narcissistic Partner | Let Me Reach with Kim Saeed

5 Reasons Why it’s Critical That You Leave Your Narcissistic Partner

5 Reasons Why it’s Critical That You Leave Your Narcissistic Partner | Let Me Reach with Kim Saeed

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