"Around the turn of the 20th century the development of higher education credated a culture of romantic pursuit in women's colleges. These were called "smashes" or "spoons", and they were written about quite frankly in stories for girls aspiring to attend female college's in publications such as Ladies Home Journal without negative views."
I couldn't have said it better: You can be a woman, or you can be a man. I’ll love you the same, if you're cisgender or trans*. You can even be neither, or a mix of the two. You’re a beautiful person, just by being you. ~~poem courtesy of Serbian