A Real Man never hurts a woman. Be very careful when you make a woman cry because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib, NOT from his feet to be walked on and NOT from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal.
God exposes sin not to shame us but to change us. Oh, the glorious and wonderful love of God! There is no shame in admitting your sin and accepting the discipline of God. God isn't looking to shame us and make us feel worthless!