I think this is a good quote to summarize what Goff said in Chapter 6 of Love Does. He didn't give up when the law school told him no. He found a way to make it happen, and this is a very good lesson to learn. If you truly want something never give up.
Your dresses should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady. ~Edith Head For a lot of years and for various reasons I wore clothes, especially shirts, that hid me. Well, that's over.
A woman isn't a thing to catch because she is pretty to look at. Glorifying "hard to get" perpetuates rape culture that tells men it's okay to keep pursuing a woman after she says no because she doesn't really mean it. She's just "playing hard to get".