One poorly constructed home (bought & returned all in our first year of marriage), one seriously ill parent, death, loss of a pet, a major & chronic disease (resulting in loss of work/more bills), storm damage, one car accident, unable to currently have children, a vehicle theft - and never, ever ONCE has he taken it out on me. Hang in there or don't get married.
"Many marriages would be better off if the husband and wife clearly understood they are on the same team."- Zig Ziglar ♥ It's important to have goals and dreams for your marriage so that you and your spouse are continually working together! :)