"When you complain, you make yourself into a victim. When you speak out, you are in your power. So change the situation by taking action or by speaking out if necessary or possible; leave the situation or accept it. All else is madness." Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now.
A lot of death has happened in my family in only a month, but i think what this quote is trying to tell people that even if you hear bad things happened doesn't mean there isn't going to be something good after the bad things happen... We love you Jordon and Grace