Until you have done something for someone that is completely unselfish. Something that may be life changing. Something that money could never repay. You have not lived.AND MAKE SURE THAT THEY DON'T KNOW WHO DID IT FOR THEM
It took me a long time to realize that not wanting surface relationships isn't a flaw. I have deeper, truer, more loving friendships than most people get in a lifetime and I don't want to settle for 600 empty names on Facebook because the people in my life taught me how worth the effort strong friendships are.