You have a busy life, juggling work, home, friendships, relationships, kids, and you're so used to being all things to all people you've forgotten who you really are anymore. Learning about yourself - what you need, want and like, what really makes you tick is the first vital step to increased happiness, reduced stress, contentment and clarity. After all, if you don't know what your needs are, how can they possible be met?
Hopefully when we are us there will be less stress and hopefully none from me, so that won't be such a worry. Oh and we'll be active, so you won't need to worry about the other either, plus I'll love you no matter what.