No person has the right to condemn you on how you repair your heart or how long you choose to grieve, because no one knows how much you're hurting. Recovering takes time, and everyone heals at his or her own pace. *BE WELL.
It takes a strong heart to love but it takes a stronger heart to continue to love after being hurt. My hubby Jeff was this kind of person. He loved a person, even if they hurt them. He had a forgiving heart & would find the good in everyone.