Not my circus. Not my monkeys. (Polish proverb) Every time you feel yourself getting drawn into other people's nonsense, repeat these words. Great to remember, because I am trying to not get sucked into peoples drama
As much as I would like to take responsibility for other people's decisions and actions; I kinda have my own to deal with. Don't look for a scapegoat, try to learn from this so its a pilot not a series.