I struggle with this. I struggle with a lot of things. I see both sides of things. I analyze everything. The ins and outs of every situation. Is it me? Is it them? Is something going on in their life that is making them treat me this way? Am I taking it personal when I shouldn't? People are hard. Some are just trying to make it through their lives the best they can. Others... others are just straight up shitty people. There is no catch all reasoning for behavior.