I've learned that through dark times, it is best not to ask "why me" or "why does this happen". Even though life hit you hard and throw you off your feet, get up, keep moving. Keep living. Things will change.
this is seriously what men think about love, or how they see it. They don't need lots of flowery words or gestures. Men are different than women...extraordinarily simple and for them it's enough to just be together...they don't remember the extra fluff LOL and women are opposite a lot of times we take for granted the just being together and focus on the fluff that won't be there in 20+yrs