I make mistakes every day, but I learn more and more about being a mother from those mistakes made. I believe all mothers make mistakes but a good momma takes the time to learn and knows how to better those mistakes made.
Not for a Narcissistic Parent it isn't. They hate seeing their target happy. If you're happy they have failed in their job. Only when you're miserable, the Narc is satisfied. But they still feel the need to keep twisting the knife.