They say, abusers and controllers choose others who are kind and who will give them the benefit of the doubt. I guess this is why. Well, I'm over that. I had to learn the HARD way, but better late than never and never again.
He was abusive when he hurt. He didn't know how to give TLC so he'd get angry and the ugly words and shoving started, his defensiveness to get away, run away when he didn't know what to do yet he never attempted to learn.guessing he thought one just wok