If you have to give yourself a 30 day relationship "challenge" which is comprised of things that should just be given and not even thought twice about, you're doing it wrong. He deserves all of these things everyday, period.
Dating Expectations for Boys: A Letter Every Mother Should Read to Her Son. I love that she takes her son on dates starting at age five. Not only to spend time with him, but to teach him HOW to date a girl.