Truthbomb: Going with the flow isn't about being passive or just letting things happen "to you". "The flow" is the ocean of cosmic intelligence. And it's a co-creative act to pay attention and move where it wants to take you. "Flow" takes some effort.
Truthbomb: Want to know why jerks show up in your life? So that you can burn karma — old agreements to be broken in current time, vows to be rescinded, slates to be wiped clean. We attract jerks for contrast.