And yes I still like when my husband opens doors for me. I also like having an education, a career, property, judicial rights, a voice, etc. and it not be seen as an insult to our genders or G-d himself. We have these things now, but not always. We cannot abandon feminism because of our current comfort. Let no one tell you feminism kills chivalry. Courteous gestures, thoughtful overtures are not debased, a man is not lessened because a woman wants the means to rely on herself.