So true! I see the quote saying that "God only gives us what we can handle" SO often... But truthfully, no one has enough strength on their own to 'handle' the big things in life. He is the one who gives us hope and strength. The most difficult circumstances aren't always given to 'strong' people, just as easy lives aren't always given to those who appear weak.
May you cast your cares on Jesus, May your load feel instantly lighter as you trust in HIm. May He fill you with joy overflowing, right here, right now, right in the midst of your circumstances. May Kingdom power upstage every worry and every fear. May Kingdom authority help you to rise above your circumstances instead of being crushed by them. New days are ahead. Breakthrough days are just around the corner. Don't give up hope. You serve the God of the breakthrough and HE is for you.