Rose Kennedy on Grief - It has been said that time heals all wounds. I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind protecting it's sanity, covers them with scar tissue, and the pain lessens, but it is never gone.
And if a guy PREFERS you in sweatpants (and sans makeup) you've hit the jackpot! "Sweatpants, hair tied, chilling with no makeup on, that's when you're the prettiest, I hope that you don't take it wrong"