JK Rowling on Hermione NEVER EVER Change who you are to be with any one. NEVER EVER trim away part of yourself so that you can fit with some one else. It's NOT worth it. The one that is worth you will fit with who you are perfectly.
It isn't possible to describe how much this woman and her talent have changed my life. Every word, every single word of Harry Potter saga is a lesson for me. That's why I'm not ashamed to say that she has changed me.