"Be one who nurtures and builds. Be one who has an understanding and a forgiving heart who looks for the best in people. Leave people better than you found them." Note: "LEAVE PEOPLE BETTER THAN YOU FOUND THEM.
It's all about falling in love with yourself and sharing that love with someone who appreciates you, rather than looking for love to compensate for a self-love deficit. And you deserve amazing love because you are amazing.