However, if someone says something homophobic and you point it out to them and they apologize and refrain from saying it again, that's different. Some people don't realize the harm of "that's so gay!" until they're told<<<true
Just remember that the vast majority of violence against women AND MEN is perpetuated by men, but abusing someone NO MATTER YOUR GENDER is not okay, and it's DEFINITELY not okay for WOMEN to abuse men either. It is abuse.
Bob Marley - "If she's amazing she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worthy . Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.