You cannot convince people to love you. This is an absolute rule. No one will ever give you love because you want him or her to give. Real love moves freely in both directions. Don't waste your time on anything else.
To all the girls who are in a hurry to have a boyfriend or get married, a piece of Biblical advice: “Ruth patiently waited for her mate Boaz.” While you are waiting on YOUR Boaz, don’t settle for any of his relatives.