"A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it just blooms." --- Everything is you and God thing, and there is nobody else involved. So comparing or competing is just waste of time. Keep focusing on yourself, focusing of loving yourself.
Blood doesnt make family. Id choose my friends over some family members any day. Its about people whose made the effort to see you and spend time with you. Blood doesnt mean shit. its just dna nothing more. My opinion, thats the way I look at it.