I'm trying desperately to figure out what the reason was for putting him in my path. Other than heartbreak and ruining my self confidence and feeling totally conned and stupid, I don't know. Maybe i needed to learn that you really can't trust people.
Plato understood that you cannot legislate good behavior! The actual translation of the quote is "Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will find a way around the laws." - Plato B.