Serving The Lord is different to serving others. When we serve others with no thought for doing the Lord's Will, we may finish up in servitude to others' selfish demands. Answers to prayer come often while serving The Lord in His Way.
Trust God, for he knows what is right. (except, i have a man who thinks he deserves it, and honestly, he does not deserve it) so perhaps God will place my heart in the hands of a man who truly deserves it!
There is no such thing as an unanswered prayer, Gods answer is either Yes, my child. or its No, child I have something better for you. so when you dont get what you thought you were wanting just think, Gods plan is better for you. He wont lead you astray.
when you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown faith is knowing one of two things will happen: there will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.