The worst and harshest critics of a new or young mom is another new or young mom. We all do it different this parenting thing. As long as the child is safe and thriving just let it be with the judgements.
When they speak listen....& when they ask, answer. 11 years into being a Mommy, these are 2 of the things that keep Blake & I so close. He knows what he says matters and if he asks me something I will always give an HONEST answer.