Sometimes those are not the things God has for us. But when we are stubborn and make it our way, he just turns his back and let's it be, you think your happy. But when you are back in that hole again and ask for his help he is still there. Amazing!
Never apologize for having standards and expectations of how to be treated. Not at the stake of your integrity, morals, or anything else. If people can't step up, then they can step down. It's a privilege to be a part of someone's life, not a given right.