I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand. Although as an author I am responsible for making readers understand--a reader who doesn't understand is an unhappy reader. (And there is some value to leaving some questions unanswered.
To be honest with you, I don’t have the words to make you feel better, but I do have the arms to give you a hug. Ears to listen to whatever you want to talk about and I have a heart; a heart that’s aching to see you smile again.