Whatever you want to bring into your life, you must GIVE it. Do you want love? Then give it. Do you want appreciation? Then give it. Do you want understanding? Then give it. Do you want joy and happiness? Then give it to others. What have you been giving?
You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories. If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should've behaved better. ~ and when you got pictures to go with the story, well, it just makes it their behavior all the more horrid.