Unfortunately it's true, some people thrive off twisting others' actions and words. Right down to the smallest things. Taking words or messages out of context when in reality he felt sorry for you, and wasn't actually sorry about what had been done.
You're going to come across people in your life who will say all the right words at all the right times. But in the end, it's always their actions you should judge them by. It's actions, not words, that matter. - Nicholas Sparks
Do not tolerate being vilified. Distance yourself from those who seek to take underhanded jabs at you while maintaining their innocence. Such behavior barks of immaturity and a complete disregard for the feelings of others.